It has to be a family decision....

Diving In Once Again

I had a long talk with my daughter Brighid today regarding me getting back into the pool to dive.  She was nervous when I said I wanted to talk to her - like any teenager - she was concerned she was in trouble for something.

I told her I was considering making a year commitment to qualify for the Nationals and potentially the World Championships and she got a bit quiet.  I was worried that that I was about to be shot down.  I felt like a teenager asking a girl out on a date.  I really wanted that positive response.

She thought for a moment - and said  - "Really"?

When she saw I was serious - she said "Of Course Dad...that would be really cool"!

Now it was my turn to smile.  One down - two to go.

My eldest daughter Sean was my next target.  When I finally could get the iPod ear buds out of her ear - I asked her what she thought of me getting back on the board.  Her answer was quick - and sure.  She said "It  is what I would expect you to do Dad".   I asked if that meant she was supportive - she smiled and said "Of course".  Secretly - she was thinking that her little sister would be occupied and out of her hair.  Whatever the motivation - that was 2 in support.

The last was my wife Nancy.  I asked her what she thought - and she too said it was fine.  She knows that Brighid and I have a connection - and some of the same personality traits that can sometime drive her crazy. I think she is happy to see me make a commitment to get back into shape.  I only hope that the time commitment does not change her mind along the way.

So - I have an all clear from my family.  After much thought - I am ready to make a commitment.  I am excited, anxious, motivated and happy with my decision.  Now the journey begins.